Tired of being alone? Life kind of empty without that special person? You might be even be thinking about a specific special person. If only he wasn’t dating what’s her name. Are you thinking a little witchcraft or a well constructed spell might be the answer?
Magick certainly could help you. People having been using spells, talismans, and all sorts of other magick tools to find or steal love from the competition. As long as there have been witches, cunning persons, or whatever the local culture describes the professional magician as the lonely or jealous have been asking for help.
So what do you need to do to get started? First, here is what doesn’t work.
Changing Another Person Doesn’t Work
Sorry to disappoint you but what most people want to do won’t work and may even backfire. I have worked love magick in my life so can attest to the following. Which you will find others will confirm with some research on your part.
Do not bother casting a spell to cause the person to fall in love with you. Or be attracted to you. Influencing another person directly at a magickal level involves so many variables, most of which you have no idea exist, it will backfire if anything happens at all.
This approach will end in pain and drama. Not only is it a waste of time to do, untangling yourself from the repercussions is time you could have been spending finding and being with the real Mr. or Mrs. Right.
Here is what you need to do.
Work On Yourself Instead
Use magick to be your best self. You can also use magick to become more noticeable. Shifting the odds of meeting the perfect partner is also a great approach.
The key here is by working on yourself with a positive approach you can benefit directly from the working and indirectly from the repercussions. Which in this case would be positive.
As one example, want to get in better physical shape? Use magick to make changes in your life to be healthier. It is both good for you directly and will be more attractive to the right future partner. Vibrant people are naturally attractive. When you are your best self you will be too.
You can also work directly with reality to improve your luck for having random encounters. Just don’t target them at a specific person. And very importantly be ready to act on these chance meetings without being needy. Magick and maybe a good therapist can help you with the needy part too.
Things You Can Do
Either yourself or with the help of an experienced magickal professional you can do things like create and use:
- A Venus talisman created at an appropriate time astrologically,
- Affirmations, remember just 1 or 2 and keep them positive and present tense.
- Well constructed spells. Directly engage energy with your intention and will to accomplish your goal.
- Regular banishing could help you remove any maligned entities causing you trouble.
- Asking the gods for help in meeting the right person.
This list could be much longer. Also, make use of your divination skills to check the viability of your goals and plans. If you haven’t developed skills with tarot, astrology, or any of the many systems get started! But in the meantime you can have a friend help or pay someone to do a professional reading.
Finding love is about finding love in yourself first. Magick aimed at other people can work. You do need to be consider the dangers and pitfalls of that kind of work. Not all professional occultists will do such a spell on your behalf. Your time would be well spent considering why.
So go deep inside to meet and become your true self. Use magick to help in the journey. At the same time you can use magick to increase the odds of meeting the right person for love.